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Good evening everyone

As I sat on the train home from work today I had a rather disturbing chain of thoughts.

I have read many posts on here where posters have expressed their concern about Sean and Amelie, but, unless I have missed something, the concern is (completely justifiably, i might add)
about them in the past (i.e. being left alone every night at Mark Warners) and present (what extent of parental care they are receiving now). My thought process ran away with me into the future.

Let me explain.

Kate and Gerry are very lucky that their remaining children were so little when Maddie disappeared. They were still babies then and they are luckily still very young now.
They still have no concept about what happened or what is going on now.In all the pointy questions they have been asked they have at least not had to deal with any from Sean and Amelie.
But at almost 3 1/2 years old they are growing up and in a few years' time they will start to become aware of things. Years
more down the line, certain unpleasant things will occur to them and as they get older still they will:

1. Know of the huge media circus that their parents helped to create
2. Know that their parents left them alone every evening to eat and drink with their friends
3. Read the speculation that they sedated them all every night so they could do what they did at 2. above
4. Read all the media saturation and all the negative opinions people have of their parents
5. View the many awful interviews the McCanns have given that are so telling - Gerry pulling ear, looking shifty at Calpol suggestion
6. See and read that they went jogging, playing tennis, having highlights done mere days (if not hours) after Maddie disappeared
7. Read all about the Scenic, DNA, hair, bodily fluids etc
8. Read uncomfortable statements from their parents like the "whoosh clunk"one, the "it was our holiday too" and "we were so into our friends"

I could go on, but we all know this by heart.

How will they feel? They will start to ask their parents questions. They will think and doubt will start to creep in.

And how will it affect them in every day life? Their names are now as famous as their little faces and whilst their appearance will change over the years their names
(unless they change them in later life, of course) will not. I know that if I ever met a Ben Needham, for example, I'd instantly think....

Imagine the looks they will get when someone recognises their names - some pitying, most curious and also awkward.

Imagine the cruel typical childrens' taunts in the playground - "I know what your parents did".

Imagine their CVs landing one someone's desk. Is that THE Amelie McCann? THE Sean McCann.

Imagine how awkward the interviewer would feel and how embarassed and awkward the interviewee knowing that her or his potential new boss knew and that they knew that he/she
knew.

And what about their love lives and personal relationships? What kind of characters and personalities will these two lovely children grow into with all this hanging over them?

Would what happened create some stumbling block in them that would prevent them wanting to have children of their own, or feeling that perhaps they could not?
And if they did have children, what would be their relationship with their own children?

And how would their relationship pan out with their parents who would have to keep up a lifelong pretence with their ever growing remaining twins? Perhaps that, if nothing else
will ever come of this sorry saga ( and I sincerely hope that that is not the case and the PJ will soon come up trumps) is their punishment before God, if they are truly
that religious (except they are not, are they?).

And lastly, I wonder if any of this went thought Gerry & Kate's collective heads when they took the wrong turn and decided that abduction was the best road to travel down?

To answer your last sentence- no of course it didn't.
They put together a plan of action to get them out of their immediate problem - how to explain Madeleine's absence. I don't believe for one moment that that thought that they would not be believed. They thought they were much cleverer than the police and that they would just walk away.

They certainly never expected things to pan out the way they have.

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Sadly, Jassi, I think that is absolutely right.

of course the twins will be having a rough ride over all this ( such a shame ) that them two can put there own kids through this
the mcs should be so ashamed of themselves knowing the twins will carry their burden their lies and irrisponsable parenting
but saying that the mcs just use these two babies for their own purpose

:thumbright: Bengal, exactly, they are going to see all this, ALL media pieces, the You Tube vids, our posts even if archived it will be ALL there and they'll KNOW something wasn't right.

They'll see for themselves the NEGLECT they and their Maddy went through, they'll read their parents were describing their (so-called from the Twins " Find the Monster game " (from January08 article, thread by NBrado, %-( [!!!] of when late Mr WYRE and his wife had been invited for tea in Rothley-- and even Mr Wyre said, it's JUST been their birthdays!! instead of 1st February)

Anyway I think they'll see that mum&dad wil have gone 'MISSING' for a "lil while" in between! <):) @};- @};-

Kcr - as the replying poster to mine said above, of course they did not think about this at the time. How on earth could they. They had much more important things on their minds. It was said as a closing statement more tongue in cheek, but they certainly have had plenty of time to think about how Sean and Amelie would feel years late since then. So, let us hope that if, for now (and I MEAN only for now) they escape immediate action, they will always be haunted by their two remaining children questioning and doubting them. That is, if what we believe is truly along the lines of what actually happened

I doubt whether Sean and Amelie will really remember Madeleine at all. They are used, in my opinion, by their parents, to portray a heartbreaking scenario where the twins ask about Madeleine every day and go off looking for her (more than her parents did). It makes the McCanns look good in the media, a shattered family with the little ones plaintifully asking where their sister is.
I think, when this is all over, the whole family will emigrate to Canada and the twins will grow up probably not hearing too much about the sister that got "lost" on holiday a long, long time ago. They may never take it any further, may never realise their IS information on the internet. Why would they if it's never mentioned as a big deal and they're living in a place where their name isn't synonomous with child neglect.?

I just keep thinking of two kids, about 14 who get told about their sister, and how she was left to babysit them.

And then they sneak off to their computers and Google their names. I just see two kids crying, and talking between themselves, not wishing to speak to their parents about it.

Two kids, very upset, very damaged, and probably, very angry.

Step up to the table Kate and Gerry, you did a fu**ing good job, didnt you............

Bengal I think if they get away with every thing on Monday they will go and live in Canada and change their names and hope the twins are little enough to not ask questions and will later have forgotten..I think that is why they went on holiday there to sort out the future.

problem for the MCs will be, in that case, that there is internet in Canada.

True, but it's only used by English-speaking witches who have electrickery.

Going to Canada. Probably.

Staying anon in a world with the Internet, doing a job like GerryNeglector, not a chance. Sooner or later he would get rumbled.

He can run, but he cant hide.

Lots of people have suggested that the 'abduction scenario' was put in place to protect the children of all the T9. The thinking being it would be awful to destroy the twins lives as well.

However things got out of control with the media and celebrity backing and there was no turning back. They never thought for one minute that they would not be believed.

So it is rather ironic then that their two surviving children will probably have to change their names so as not to be immediately recognised. The thought of Amelie and Sean reading about themselves is going to be traumatic, I do hope what ever happens those children are given all the help they need.

Or it could just be they thought of themselves first, no surprise there.

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Woh don't say that, we have some e-friends from there on here!

true though, even if they do one ,they'll HAVE to (knowing Gerald) be in a place where the Net is. So S&A WILL see all this. All the reports, and those of now, Anorak, Murat getting apologies, the rest to come and EVERYTHING.
They'll believe mum & Dad for a while, then they'll grow-up.

well that's if they survive all this.

They might sue the British social services.

song from the Eagles suits them to a T