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TinLizzy

Rank：Diamond Member Score：1787 Posts：1787 From：Canada Register：11/07/2008 1:17 AM

Date Posted：07/30/2010 1:27 AMCopy HTML Mummy I have had the best day ever - revisited... http://web.archive.org/web/20080113040922/forums.mirror.co.uk/viewtopic.php?t=35521&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=30 The first thing I look for when I read the death of a child is a parent referring to what the child said to them on the last day.. I find it very 'telling' Once I feel a parent falls into the 'questionable category, and I hear claims that the child said something 'nice'..(putting the parents in a good light), a 'red flag' goes up. It seems to be the guilty parents (maybe subconscious) way of claiming 'innocence'...diverting thoughts of a troubled relationship between parent and child. Deflecting thought of guilt away from them...'Proving' that their relationship was good. Thoughts happen because of the existance of 'something'... There was something to do with what happened that day to give Kate a reason for using the comment about having the best day ever...and it was probably because it was something Maddy said to her indicating about NOT having the best day ever and that she needed to deflect from that. I would guess that Maddy said quite the opposite to her. eg..Had Kate said that Maddy told her how much she loved her that day, I would suggest that Maddy would have told her she hated her..its basically the first claims of 'innocence'....a kind of 'How could I have done it if she said this to me' .. Theres a reason people choose to say things..you don't tend to grab comments from out of thin air.....In this case I dread to think what Maddy said to her for her to transpose it to 'best day ever' Gerry's comments would be of a similar nature but maybe more to make himself sound more loving and caring than he actually was. Its all about influencing public about the realtionship with the child...but what most people don't realise, is that to say it in such a contrived fashion tends to indicate the possibility of guilt. Usually an innocent person would generate THEIR feelings towards the child (and how they miss them)...not vice versa. Sadly (without going into detail) I think Gerry was saying the opposite about Maddy to what he actually felt at the time.. Thats what I believe, anyway.